Why Certain Words Trigger Us: What Our Reactions Can Reveal About Self-Belief
Some words bounce.
When I first began creating this website, I thought I was building pages.
A place for information.
A way to explain what I do.
A collection of offerings.
But somewhere along the way…
it quietly became something else.
Not because I planned it.
Because it was the only thing that felt true.
I have always believed that healing isn’t something we can force.
It’s something we slowly remember.
And remembering rarely happens in waiting rooms or sales pages.
It happens around campfires.
In gardens.
Among books.
Over quiet conversations.
In places that make us feel safe enough to finally exhale.
So I stopped asking,
And I started asking…
That question built everything that followed.
🔥The Fire.
📚The Library.
🪴The Garden.
🧪The Apothecary.
🚪The doors.
None of them were chosen because they sounded beautiful.
They arrived because they already lived somewhere inside me.
You don’t need to read these in order.
Some were spoken aloud.
Some were whispered.
Some lived quietly in someone's heart for years before they found the words.
If there's something you've been wondering...
About yourself.
About healing.
About relationships.
About grief.
About consciousness.
Or simply about what it means to be human...
Curiosity is always welcome in this library.
Perhaps your wondering will become the beginning of a conversation.
Perhaps it will become a book waiting for someone else who has been carrying the very same question.
Either way...
I'm grateful you brought it here.
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It is time…. Perfect … words I keep hearing especially coherence. Looking forward to more remembering.🙏
Do you have any online courses?
Please add me to your mailing list and for your blog - thank you!
Great content, I would like to be part of this community share and learn
Found you on IG. Love your messages. Please add me to your mailing list.
Hello! I stumbled upon your Instagram page and very much appreciate all of the videos I just binge watched. Thank you. Thank you for putting yourself out there snd being real. I can tell in a nanosecond, some sort of trauma response going in there I would dare say, if someone is authentic, genuine, meaningful in their lives, etc. I can tell you are all of the above. I am very interested and looking forward to reading your blog and being able to learn and empathize all at the same time. That is a beautiful thing! Thank you again.
I love your content on IG. The world needs to wake up and your videos give me hope that more and more people are. More rod questions please!